Sometimes we feel (and often say) that life’s not fair, or that some things happen for a reason or for no reason at all. You know, that kind of determinism that’s tied to someone upstairs or others around us. Or someone half a world away. Bad karma, good karma. That sort of stuff
The truth is that it doesn’t matter what you believe in, because some things will always be out of your control. Living cautiously has nothing to do with the things that happen to you. Or at least that’s how I chose to see the world a long time ago.
And I do my best not to regret stuff. Or feel sorry for myself. It doesn’t work all the time.
Because this is what my legendary bad luck taught me: you can’t control the outcome of everything you do in this life. And, besides, you never know where the road might take you.
You know… blaming the world for what happens bad to you, blaming others, regretting stuff, feeling sorry what you no longer have. Feeling sorry for yourself. That’s just the worst way of living. You’re not exactly fighting, you’re not taking matters into your own hands. You just ask, “What have I done wrong? Why me?”
And it’s really funny that most times life’s only answer is, “Why not?”
After all, you never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from. Lots and lots of blessings in disguise these days.
That’s it for tonight. You take what you want from this short post.