Strive to be yourself

Modern day technology allows us to access information faster than ever. More information than ever. Keeps us connected. Keeps us in touch with people half a world away.

But there is a dangerous side effect to such a high level of media consumption.

We forget who we are.

It is easy to find idols. To admire someone for who they are, how they act, what they’ve achieved.

Those who aspired to greatness and somehow defeated insurmontable odds and achieved it.

That’s the part we often overlook, mistaking admiration for aspiration, confusing an idol with a role model.

What made Steve Jobs unique and successful was the fact that there never was one before him.

If you’re trying to be like someone else, without understanding what it took for them to get to where they are now, it’s a sure way for you to slowly become nothing at all.

You are you. There’s no one else like you. There never was and never will be.

And that is your power.

Embracing your unique nature, not trying to emulate someone else’s.

Taking a leap of faith as to become who you want to be, who you feel is the truest representation of your true self.

Understanding deeply that your journey is yours alone. That you create the path by walking, not by following.

What sets you apart?

What makes you feel alive?

Ever felt so enthusiastic about something that you couldn’t wait to tell everyone about it?

Ever felt so strongly about a dream that you did not give up and kept on fighting, even when everyone told you to give up?

That’s who you are. That’s pointing you in the direction of your true self.

And no one else can tell you that, no one else can guide you better than your own heart.

What is really important to you?

What is your passion?

What are you willing to give up sleep, food, time and energy to?

Being yourself is a constant battle.

But remember this: in any given day, the world asks you who you are. If you don’t know, the world will tell you.

And I assure you that you won’t like the answer.

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10 comments on “Strive to be yourself

  1. O my god. This is brilliant. I love it. Your piece really enlightens me. Truly a must-be-read.

  2. Maichi says:

    I needed this. Thank you for the inspiration 💕 I feel like everyone needs to hear this more often in their lives especially those who feel “lost.” Choose your heart over your head.

  3. The picture above should be crowds of people staring behind the person at the edge of the cliff talking to them. A sign that people try to convince you not to pursue because they fear. But don’t look at them or the open hole where you might fall. Trust and believe that the person where they want to be have fallen through the cracks a few times before crossing the open ridge.

  4. masoomaaa1 says:

    I never stop loving your blogs. They are truly a motivation to me and I’m glad I came across them!

  5. So true! If you don’t know who you are the world will tell you who you are and you won’t like the answer. That’s why it’s important to know who we are. It reminds me of a lyric in an Incubus song called, “Warning.”

    I suggest we/Learn to love ourselves/Before its made illegal/When will we learn/When will we change/Just in time to see it all come down/Those left standing will make millions/Writing books on ways it should have been.

    Your post always make you think and are eloquently written, Cristian. 😀

  6. “That you create the path by walking, not by following.”
    Very solid words! So true of accepting your own path in life.

  7. WordCatcher says:

    lovely and thought provoking. thanks for sharing :-)

  8. Rockin’!!! Wasn’t it Oscar Wilde who said, “Be Yourself. Everyone else is taken.” Thank You for this post! :)

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