On failure. Again.

“It is sometimes a mistake to climb; it is always a mistake never even to make the attempt. If you do not climb, you will not fall. This is true. But is it that bad to fail, that hard to fall?”Neil Gaiman

I think failure is not the opposite of success. No. Failure is a stepping stone to success. An integral part of success. We learn so much from failure, and not nearly enough from success.

And, yet, most people are afraid of failure. Are you one of them? Why?

Our struggles become our strengths. There’s no way around it. Of course, you can spend your life avoiding suffering, pain, failure, but isn’t that going to break your heart regardless? Won’t it make you feel small, insignificant, empty, dumb? Isn’t that going to make you feel as if there’s this invisible wall between you and the rest of the world?

Avoiding failure… isn’t that going to make you feel as if you’ve lost something that you never even knew you had? As if missing someone you never met?

Avoiding failure… becoming nostalgic for all the chances you did not take, isn’t that going to make you despise silence, despise the face you see in the mirror?

What are you going to do then?

Buy a gun? Stop looking yourself in the mirror?

Do not go quiet into that good night…

And remember this: you aren’t a failure because you have failed. No. You only become a failure if you quit or if you blame someone else.

Assume responsibility. Become the captain of your soul. The master of your fate. Do what you’ve always wanted to do. Be free, relentless, passionate.

Change the world inside your heart and the world around you will also change.

And never forget: you can’t beat a person who never gives up.

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5 thoughts on “On failure. Again.

  1. Great post, if you never try you will always regret never taking that step, to failure is to enjoy and appreciate success. Don’t look down of fail attempts because you tried and if you fail once the next time you may pass, the answer be brave and try. The folks who look down or enjoy laughing at your failure are not worth taking their advice or being their mates.

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