I Am Full of Wounds and Still Standing on My Feet

People often think of success as a singular moment. It’s not.

Think of it this way. One day you get sick and tired of always being sick and tired by the way you look. You can’t stand seeing yourself in the mirror, so you decide it’s time to go to the gym.

You work out for a day or two. What happens after that? Do you see any results? Do the people around you?

If nothing changed, are you a failure? What happened?

Do a lot of people give up because after one, two, twenty workouts, there’s still no visible change? There’s no one to acknowledge their work? What if they quit, and then start over, and then quit again, and then start again… and one day, they just keep going?

If they keep working out, going to the gym, day in and day out, and then, one day, they look in the mirror and they go like, “Wow.” And all their friends and family congratulate them on what they achieved.

Is that the moment when they became successful? Or did everything before that moment lead to the moment when everyone else acknowledged their success?

I’d say they were a success from the moment they picked up their first weight or stepped for the first time on the treadmill. And they were a success during their second workout, their third…

They were a success when they failed to go to the gym, or when they failed to go on that run, or when they quit working out for a month or two…

Failure and success are not opposites. And success is not the about achieving a goal, obtaining something, or being admire by people. Being successful means enjoying a process that you know will help shape the person you want to be.

And you know what’s the funny part about all this?

That failure is an integral part of it all.

Without failure, there’s no success. There’s no reason to succeed.

The average person quits smoking anywhere between 6 to 30 times before finally giving up. Imagine that they do give up. On their eighth attempt. When did they fail? When did they succeed? Could they have managed to give up entirely on smoking were it not for the failed attempts and what those attempts taught them?

So, how would I define success, so it does not make us anxious when it does not happen overnight?

Success is the process of doing what you know is right, whether you feel like it or not, whether people approve or not, and doing it over and over again, despite obstacles or setbacks.

That is all.


I am in a dire situation: an nasty infection of one of my teeth. Debilitating pain. Antibiotics barely managing to keep the inflammation down.

I am scheduled for surgery on Tuesday.

So far, almost $500 have been raised, which means I still have $1,500 left to raise in order to get this surgery done.

If you wish to help me out, you can donate any amount you see fit via PayPal here.

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