Everybody wants to eat, but no one is willing to hunt.
Everybody wants to be fit and strong, but no one wants to lift heavy weights. If only they could pay someone else to do their pushups for them…
People give up for a number of reasons. The following list contains 16 of the most common of them.
Okay, let’s take this one by one…
1. Expect fast results.
I often say that expectations can break your heart. It is sad but true that most people like the idea of something happening to them, but they don’t want to put in the time and effort required.
The idea is this: nothing works the way you expect it too. It takes longer. The matter of fact is that nothing works the first few times.
2. Stop believing in themselves.
If you are looking for someone who’s going to make all your dreams come true, take a look in the mirror.
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.
Resilience is the ability to face disaster with a smile and keep on fighting for what you want.
3. Get stuck in the past.
The past is a place of reference, not of residence.
Learn from your mistakes, move on.
What happened, happened, and the more time you spend there, the more you’ll break your heart.
4. Dwell on mistakes.
You learn more from failure than you ever do from success, it is true, but it is equally important not to let said mistakes affect your current performance.
No one is perfect, and wishing for perfection is a waste of time and energy. Strive for progress – which means making a lot of mistakes, over and over again, until you become better and stop making them.
5. Fear the future.
The future doesn’t exist yet. Tomorrow is but a promise at best. You cannot control it, so let it go.
Carpe diem, so to speak.
Live in the moment, do the best you can with what you have.
There’s no reason to fear what has yet to present itself to you.
6. Resist change.
Keep an open mind. Embrace uncertainty. In fact, make it one of your principles and understand deeply that one’s ability to face uncertainty usually determines their level of success.
Change is the one true constant of life, and the most adaptable individual is the one to survive.
7. Give up their power.
People give up their power when they think they have none. They also like to find excuses.
Don’t.
Just don’t.
You are the master of your fate, the captain of your soul.
You are the only one who’s responsible for how you feel, how you act, and how you react to what happens to you.
And that is your power.
8. Believe in their weaknesses.
No one’s perfect. Accept that you aren’t either. Accept your faults. Understand that you can progress and learn. You can develop certain skills.
Nothing is set in stone.
Remember the previous part about change? Well, the good news is nothing ever stays the same. Neither will you.
9. Feel the world owes them something.
Being an entitled prick is one of the worst way to go about life.
No one owes you anything. No one. Don’t break your own heart by thinking that they do.
10. Fear failure more than they desire success.
Failure is inevitable. It’s not the opposite of success, but a part of it.
An integral part of learning.
We stumble and fall, over and over again, until we learn how to do it.
Winners keep on going. They do it and do it and do it, and they fail and fail and fail, until they succeed.
11. Never visualize what is possible.
Would you be able to hit a target you do not see? Or cook a dish without knowing the recipe?
12. Feel they have something to lose.
You are going to die. Whether you want it or not. What more do you have to lose?
In fact, the more you hold on to something, the likelier it is that you’ll lose it.
Loss is a part of life. Accept it.
13. Overwork.
Work hard.
Or is it work smart?
14. Assume their problems are unique.
Maybe your parents, your teachers, or your friends told you that you are unique.
You are not.
Someone else went through what you are going through right now. Learn from them.
Someone else accomplished what you are dreaming about right now. Learn from them. Let their feats inspire you.
15. See failure as a sign to turn back.
Failure is a sign you are trying. Failure is a sign you should try harder. Failure is a sign you are getting closer to success.
Try and fail, but don’t fail to try.
16. Feel sorry for themselves.
Don’t. Just don’t.
Worrying and feeling sorry for oneself never solved any problem. It just gave people who felt powerless something to do while still feeling powerless.
Like sitting in a rocking chair and pretending you are going somewhere.
Maybe you can relate to one or two or maybe more of these reasons. Maybe you have a different set of reasons why you should give up on something.
But you want to know the truth?
You only need one reason to keep going.
Nice post, very motivating.
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Thank you!
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Smart work is enough and you will never give up
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really nice post !
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This got me thinking about ways to increase motivation. The way that you start your day sets the tone for the whole day. Here are some things I do to get energized first thing in the morning:
Drink a glass of ice water: it will wake you up quicker than coffee
Shower first thing in the morning: this will wake you up and get your blood flowing.
Eat a good breakfast: include whole grains and a piece of fruit.
Some other things you can do to be more successful at your goals:
Keep your living space clean and organized. No one can thrive in chaos.
Make sure you are getting enough sleep.
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Most excellent! Thank you.
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Thank you for reading!
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The bigger question is, why do people give up on people so fast?
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Society. It taught us to be fragile… we expect more from others than it’s humanly possible. Relationships are difficult to maintain…
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Motivational. Thank you. Always believe in yourself and NEVER GIVE UP, is my lesson from this. Just what I need, cos things have been tough professional, of late.
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Nice one!! Giving up is not an answer to the situations we are facing!! Even if we fail it teaches us the lesson to move ahead with a lot more experience!!
I loved the way you portrayed the important points
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Its really amazng
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Well explained✌😊
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Thanks for sharing that image; very interesting. I saved it for future reminders.
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Reblogged this on Geetanjalijhadkathavachak and commented:
Next time you think you cannot just see this…
Awesome!!
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i quite fancy the remark of the ‘world not owing you anything’. It’s a great example of one’s hubris bringing about failure, of course, I’d quite hope the person who experiences that fall is restructure themselves and sprout wings.
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this was helpful. thank you!
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Reblogged this on Kia ora Koutou and commented:
This a great blog well worth visiting.
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A fairly comprehensive list of obstacles to change. Thanks for the post.
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Thank you for reading.
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Another great post, Cristian.
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Thank you for reading.
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All of these are excellent points, and your descriptions are priceless! Being a writer means fighting past all of these pitfalls.
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Very well thought out and written piece.
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A good synopsis of conflict and discouragement. It is very encouraging to look into ourselves for daily struggles and motivation to go forward.
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All I have to say is that I don’t give up. Not my style. Only sissy cowards like the Cylon give up. Oh, I can’t move, too scary. I’d rather stay in Borg space. Or perhaps, I can’t sing, nobody wants me to do that, I may as well give up. I give up on medication consistency. I will just take tampered with medication to mess myself up. I will never go to the cops about my fellow Cylons (her family). This is a true story of somebody who gave up. I don’t but she will never make something of herself, no job training in San Jose for me, oh no. I have one bad job that I can stick with since it is not working with my family. You see why I dumped this friend?
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Great post. Thanks for sharing.
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Great encouraging post. I can relate. Reblog this @ https://creatifyinfo.com. Thanks for sharing.
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Reblogged this on John Barleycorn and commented:
I can think of several people who would benefit from this advice, but then again……….
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I would like to see this reblogged across the internet world of bloggers.
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So true. Many people seek advice and then when it is given have all the excuses in the world to not take it. The best advice I can give when people moan about their problems in life is Take a Step. You will never go on a journey without taking the first step. As my sister-in-law says…Just Do It.
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AWESOME!!!!
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Very helpful post!
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Great post! I found this extremely helpful
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Reblogged this on Fat2Fitima.
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Found your post interesting to read, really explains everything in detail,the article is very interesting and effective.Thank you
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“Being an entitled prick” made me laugh. :O) Thank you for a fab motivational post.
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Thank you for reading!
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Good article and I really like, thanks for sharing!
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Inspiring! Thanks
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Great work….. I see myself
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I love this, “If you are looking for someone who’s going to make all your dreams come true, take a look in the mirror.” So so true!
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Amazing
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Excellent and very helpful blog post! So true!
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Thank you, Jenny.
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Terrific post…I’ve experienced a number of these personally. The thing is to keep going!
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Thank you, Stephanie! And, yes, the thing is to keep going, no matter what.
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yep once went through all your pointers until I had a change of mind; and noticed that “nobody cares and nobody owes me nothing”, so I had to dust my behind off and start working.
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Good reasons! I have an additional one. People also may give up due to getting overwhelmed by having to learn new disciplines especially in today’s world of online businesses.
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